I am visiting Amsterdam...

That’s how one of the many mails I regularly get start that I find hard to answer.

If I can and have the time I am very willing to point you in the right direction, but think of this:

don’t mail me asking what hotel to book when you are in Amsterdam.
I live in Amsterdam and thus no need to book a hotel.
Also I do not have the information on what hotel is good or bad on-file.
Don’t mail me on the day you leave/arrive that you would like to meet, would like a workshop, etc.
This might sound strange, but I too have a life, a schedule and plans.
Don’t mail me on the day you arrive asking for where to go.
I am not a tourist agency that has this sort of information up-to-date.

So, what can I help you with?
I can point you to the resources I use when you send me a mail starting with “I am visiting Amsterdam…”

Looking for a hotel in Amsterdam?: Try http://www.booking.com, I use this a lot for my own travelling.

Looking for a kinbaku, shibari, bondage workshop, event, get-together?: Try the RopeMarks calendar; Try https://www.fetlife.com

Are you looking to buy (kinbaku) rope in Amsterdam?: Try Shop RopeMarks; Try Etsy; RopeMarks, NawaAto

Looking for a fetish/kinky party?: Try the RopeMarks calendar; Try https://www.fetlife.com

Are you looking for fetish shopping?: Try DeMask, http://www.demask.com; Try mail&female, http://www.mailfemale.com; Try Black Body, http://www.blackbody.nl

The above resources don’t give you the information you are looking for?: Try “visiting Amsterdam” on FetLife https://fetlife.com/groups/22276; Try https://www.google.com

Having said all this, of course you can write me if your questions are not answered above.

Last update: Jun. 2023